Sissy's Show of Support
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Article by: Skye Thomas I had been fighting with the software program that I used to build my website. The software program had a bug in it and would occasionally anger the main brains of my computer. Without warning, my computer would lock , What Is Compost And Why Does My Garden Need It? the program shut and forbid me to enter the website's file. I never knew from day to day which time I saved the file and closed it would be the last time I'd be able to open it. It didn't happen very often, but when it happened, it was like the file no longer existed. My computer had put an invisible prison wall , Stihl Chainsaws - Still Going Strong around it and I was no longer allowed to enter in and work within the file. I would have to recreate the website from scratch every time this happened. The final straw , Surfing in Cornwall - A historical Primer was when I had gone in to do a major overhaul on the site and couldn't open the file. I spent two days completely rebuilding the site from scratch. I uploaded the new file onto the web. , Cable TV and Satellite TV - Which Is Better? I was really proud of my new and improved website. I'd barely slept the night before because of all the work involved. I was dead tired at 7 o'clock that night as I sent out a newsletter inviting my readers to go check it out and give me some feedback as to what they thought of all the changes , Greenhouse Calamities β Thoughts from a Novice Gardener I'd just made. That's when I found out that one of the main links was leading people into the wrong page. The result was that nobody could get to the newsletters. They would not be able to sign up anymore. Okay, that's not a big deal. I just had to open the file, redirect the link, reload the site unto the web, , How to Organize Your Cabinets - Containers and go to bed. , Grow Your Own SIMPLE Tea Garden It should only take about 15 minutes. With any luck, I would be in bed , Hurricane Season β How Can You Prepare for It by 8 o'clock! The site slammed shut again! I had only finished rebuilding it an hour or so earlier! I was going to have to rebuild the site from scratch right then so that when my readers woke up the next morning they could see the site working properly. Any random web , Itβs a Wonderful Season to Decorate traveler stumbling upon my site would not be able to sign up for my newsletters. I couldn't tell you if I was more angry or exhausted as I began from scratch yet again. When my thirteen year old daughter was getting ready to go to bed , Replace the White Birch With River Birches In The Dublin Pa. Area a few hours later, she asked me how much longer I'd be up working. I told her the truth; it was going to be the wee hours of the morning before I would be finished. She completely understood my commitment to Tomorrow's Edge and knew that I would forgo yet another night of sleep to get it up and running correctly. True to her nature, , How to Keep your Brick Patio Weed Free she was outraged at the unfairness of the situation. She volunteered to stay up with me as a show of her love and support. I told her there was really nothing she could do to help me, and that it would mean more to me if she would get a good night's sleep and then agree to baby-sit her little brother in the morning. I would really need to sleep in and it would mean so much more to me if she would get up with my two year old and keep him out of my room , Introduction to bonsai tree growing: an overview so that I could sleep. She insisted that she would do both. She went and gathered up a bunch of her art supplies and hung out with me until I finished. She even went a step further and ran me a nice hot , Mower Maintenance for a Perfect Lawn bath as I was finishing up the last touches on the site. She hung out with me as I soaked in the tub talking with me about everything and nothing. Then she tucked me into bed , Butterfly - Life Cycle Summary and turned out the lights. , How to Organize Your Cabinets - Containers She was so proud of me for completely rebuilding the site and not screaming and crying or giving up and quitting. That little show of support meant so much to me that I almost cried as I fell asleep. What a wonderful thing we can learn from her. How many times do we simply let someone struggle alone because we have no idea how to , Gardening - Lawn Maintenance Chores Part V help them? I can't begin to tell you how much it meant to me to have her simple companionship. It was during those hours between 1 and 3 am when I could barely see straight that having her there just to keep me awake meant so much to me. No, she didn't lift a finger. No, she didn't bail me out. No, she didn't fix it. She simply said, "You will not go through this alone. I will be here to cheer you on." Her presence made an ugly exhausting nightmare into a beautiful , Rosemary: The Herb of Remembrance and Friendship example of the power , Outdoor Patio Heaters of love. I felt so good by the time I melted into my pillows that I had no anger or resentment over the event. She made it all okay just by caring enough to show up. It's easy to help our loved one's when we know what to do. Roll up your sleeves, dive in, and get to work! But what about those times when we're at a complete loss for words? What about when we don't have the tools , Landscape Gardening: Tree Arrangement or resources to help them? What about when their problem or challenge is completely over our head and beyond our area of expertise? What then? Typically, we stumble over some sort of an apology mixed in with excusing ourselves from the problem. We wish them well and say a little prayer on their behalf. Next time, consider simply being fully present so they are not completely alone in their struggle. Seems stupid and small, but it's not. It's wonderful and huge. By the way, the next morning, the software locked up again. I finally invested in an upgrade! Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge About The Author Skye Thomas began writing books and articles with an everyday practical approach to life in 1999 after twenty years of studying spirituality, metaphysics, astrology, personal growth, motivation, and parenting. After years of high heels and business clothes, she is currently enjoying working from home , Black Haw Viburnums will grow in Ambler Pa. in her pajamas. Go to www.TomorrowsEdge.net to read more of her articles and to get a free preview of one of her books. Skye@TomorrowsEdge.net |
  
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